Sex Workers…
You cannot blame your assistant (s) for your slow periods, UNLESS they absolutely are not answering, or are doing something that sabotages your calls.
I notice and not just with me( as an assistant) but other assistant’s get blamed and yelled at and given a bad rap by their clients who experience slow periods. I have been an escort myself for 18 yrs now and slow periods happen. You should not assume that your assistant is the cause of those slow periods.
I can see if emails aren’t being answered, or if the assistant is rude. But even in the instance of unanswered emails, we all know technology is NOT perfect. I for one always try to remain super connected and logged in and on top of things , ( 3 phones and a laptop and a desktop) I have some ladies on certain phones and others on other ones. YES, sometimes my phones act loopy and cause errors or for me to miss messages BUT it is never from me not paying attention and never ever from me just not being professional. How many times have some of you yourselves sent and email or a message or been waiting on one that never shows up.. think about it .. so yes it absolutely happens.
Glitches in the Matrix as my partner likes to call them. But I am dedicated always to doing MY BEST possible job. There are things that are not in my control or yours. Also sex workers your assistant is human just like you. She may get sick or have a family death and even though she or he should immediately hurry to tell you , sometimes emergencies are really emergencies and we do our best to let you know as soon as we possibly can. But if something is happening to me or my kids that is serious, emailing or texting you right in that moment may not be doable. Please understand, again its not anyone wanting to be unprofessional.
Assistant’s do alot of work and often for alot of people. We are often told thank you, but some of your words and gestures and treatment of your assistants make it seem as though you are really angry and upset when things don’t go perfect.
I am not trying to be non chalant,I at almost 50 just have a view on life that keeps my stress to a realistic minimum.
You can have the most perfect, professional NEVER an error in the world assistant, truly and the men can still just
not follow the rules or make up all kinds of reasons to not book you!
Let me say that again…
You can have the most perfect, professional NEVER an error in the world assistant, truly and the men can still just
not follow the rules or make up all kinds of reasons to not book you!
So before you get angry or cross with your assistant just think..
Did she do her best?
Is she answering my emails and really trying to stay on top of things?
Is she communicating with me often and well?
Is she reminding me of important dates and appointments?
Does she really have my SAFETY and emotional health in mind too?
I know its a stressful time of the year, again I been an escort for 18 yrs myself. I too cannot afford a loss in income.. like I get it totally. But again, I truly GIVE MY 100% and I think most assistants do. So remember clients are not easy to deal with for you or your assistant , but your assistant does the best she can to keep the horrible parts of it away from you… BUT sometimes they just are time wasters or will not follow guidelines no matter how professional, sweet and timely your assistant is.
With that said…
If you need an assistant contact me, I am straight up and have laid it all on the line here.